Time-sharing is not always easy. Although it may be difficult for parents to leave their children, sometimes the children may become distraught. An article from AllLaw explains in more detail how some kids may become so upset that they cry and ask not to go visit the other parent.
This problem is more common than most people realize. Parents should not jump to drastic conclusions about why their child is having a hard time with time-sharing. There are numerous possible motives why youngsters may not want to go from one parent to the other. The kids might wish to spend time with the other parent but do not want to leave you because they know you are sad. If they can sense you are upset, the children may unknowingly mimic your emotions. Some children may also simply experience discomfort transitioning from one household to the other.
No matter the reason, you should try to resolve your child’s anxiety. You can try to talk to him/her but avoid putting your child in the spotlight. If your child is unable to verbalize specific issues or concerns, take him/her to see a professional (a therapist, psychologist, counselor). Except in extreme cases like abuse, time-sharing should continue as usual as you work to find a positive solution.
Time-sharing: Why is my child resisting?
